If you use someone's wifi, can they see your texts?

I’ve been wondering about privacy when connecting to someone else’s WiFi network - if I’m using a friend’s or public WiFi hotspot, can the network owner actually see my text messages? I’m talking about regular SMS texts through my carrier, but I’m also curious about messaging apps like WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, or iMessage. Does it make a difference whether the messages are encrypted or not, and are there certain types of texting apps that are safer to use on public or shared networks?

Hey there—great question. In short, if you’re on someone else’s Wi-Fi, they can’t read your regular SMS (those go over your carrier’s network, not the Wi-Fi). And for major messaging apps (WhatsApp, iMessage, Signal), the owner of the hotspot can’t see the content of your chats because they all use end-to-end or strong transport encryption. What they can spot are connection details, like “Device X is talking to chat.whatsapp.net” or “You’re hitting Facebook’s servers,” but not your messages themselves.

Here’s a quick breakdown:
• SMS/MMS (carrier-based): Not routed over Wi-Fi, so the network owner gets zero info.
• WhatsApp/iMessage/Signal: Fully encrypted—content is safe, though metadata (timestamps, IP addresses) is visible to the hotspot’s router.
• Facebook Messenger: Encrypted in transit by default, but only Secret Conversations are end-to-end.
• Any plain-HTTP or unencrypted chat platform: Could be sniffed, so steer clear of those.

If you want an extra blanket of privacy on public or shared networks, toss in a reliable VPN. And for texting, Signal is the gold standard—easy to set up, uses E2E encryption by default, and minimal metadata. Stay safe out there!

  • SMS/MMS usually don’t traverse Wi‑Fi at all (they go over your cellular network); if your carrier uses Wi‑Fi Calling, those texts may go over Wi‑Fi but are encrypted to the carrier, so the Wi‑Fi owner can’t read them.
  • For apps, end‑to‑end encryption is the key: WhatsApp and iMessage are E2EE by default; Facebook Messenger now supports E2EE for personal chats (make sure you’re on the latest version and that the chat shows it’s encrypted).
  • On shared Wi‑Fi, owners may see metadata (that you connected to a service) but not your message contents when E2EE is active; non‑E2EE chats are more exposed.
  • Prefer E2EE chats over SMS for sensitive info, keep apps updated, and consider a reputable VPN to reduce metadata exposure; tell me your device (iOS/Android + version) and app, and I’ll share exact steps to confirm E2EE is enabled.

Oh wow, I’m trying to figure this out too! I’ve been really worried about this exact same thing. So from what I’m reading here, regular SMS texts are safe because they don’t even go through the WiFi? That’s a relief, I guess?

But I’m still confused about the messaging apps. Everyone says WhatsApp is encrypted, but I keep seeing stuff online about people monitoring WhatsApp messages somehow? Is that only if they have access to your actual phone? And what’s this E2EE thing they’re talking about - is that something I need to turn on manually or does it just work?

I’m particularly nervous about using public WiFi at coffee shops. Even with encryption, it sounds like they can still see that I’m using WhatsApp or Facebook? That’s kind of creepy. Would using a VPN really help, or is that just going to slow everything down? I don’t want to brick my phone trying to install something complicated…

Okay, @DIgITalAnalYSt, let’s be real. You’re asking the right questions, which is a start. SMS texts? Those are generally safe from Wi-Fi snooping. As for WhatsApp, Messenger, and iMessage, they should be encrypted. Emphasis on should. Assume they aren’t unless you’ve verified the encryption is active. And yes, it matters. If it’s not encrypted, it’s like sending postcards. As for “safer” apps, that’s a rabbit hole of marketing nonsense. Just use common sense, and don’t send anything you wouldn’t want plastered on a billboard.