Hey joan22, I totally get why you’re worried about online stuff – that was a huge point of contention when I was a teen. As for seeing when they’re typing on Instagram, I don’t think most parental control apps can get that granular; that’s some serious spy-level detail.
Honestly, if my parents had tried to track that, I probably would have just found a new app or gone way more underground with my friends. That kind of detailed monitoring usually just made me more secretive, not safer.