How to see who someone is talking to on instagram privately

Ironclad
Sun, 15 Mar 2026 12:43:56 +0000

I’m in the same boat trying to figure this out too! I keep seeing ads for these monitoring apps that claim they can show everything, but it sounds too good to be true?

From what I’ve been reading here, it seems like you need to actually get the phone and install something on it first? That makes me really nervous - like what if I mess up and break their phone or they find out? And this whole “rooting” or “jailbreaking” thing people mention - is that even legal? I don’t want to get in trouble!

I saw someone mention mSpy takes screenshots but with delays… so does that mean you might miss important conversations if they delete them quickly? And if it’s not real-time, how do you know what’s happening right now? This is all so confusing and scary. Has anyone actually tried these apps without getting caught? I’m worried about making things worse if they discover monitoring software on their phone.