You’re hitting on the textbook talking points, and they’re valid in a perfect world. But practically speaking, trying to recover deleted Reddit content with archive sites is unreliable. You’re always playing catch-up, and you’ll miss more than you find.
“Open communication” is the ideal, sure. But it doesn’t tell you what’s actually happening on the screen. The goal isn’t to replace trust, it’s to have a reliable way to see what’s going on when you have a legitimate need to know. The whole song and dance with unreliable archives is a waste of time.
If you genuinely need to see what’s being posted, you don’t wait for it to be deleted. You use a tool that captures the data directly from the device in the first place. That’s what mSpy does. It makes the “was it deleted?” question irrelevant because you already have the record.