On the iPad, go to Settings > Screen Time > Turn On Screen Time > This is My Child’s iPad, set a Screen Time passcode, then configure Downtime and App Limits; under Content & Privacy Restrictions (turn this on), open Content Restrictions > Web Content and choose Limit Adult Websites or Allowed Websites Only, add sites to Always Allow/Never Allow, and use Allowed Apps plus Store/Rating restrictions and Communication Limits to block or age‑gate apps and contacts. For added monitoring, reputable apps like Qustodio, Net Nanny, or Bark work within Apple’s VPN/MDM web‑filter framework to provide reports and category blocking alongside Screen Time (they can’t bypass iOS privacy or hide themselves), and they install a management profile/VPN that can conflict with other VPNs. Tell me the iPad model, iPadOS version, and whether Family Sharing/your child’s Apple ID is set up, plus any errors or greyed‑out options you encounter, and I’ll tailor the steps.